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Wedlock, Marriage (Nikah)
(Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Book:62)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 1:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
A group of three men came to the houses of the wives
of the Prophet asking how the Prophet worshipped
(Allah), and when they were informed about that, they
considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where
are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have
been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the
prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I
will fast throughout the year and will not break my
fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women
and will not marry forever." Allah's Apostle came to
them and said, "Are you the same people who said
so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and
more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my
fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does
not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not
one of my followers)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 2:
Narrated 'Ursa:
that he asked 'Aisha about the Statement of Allah:
'If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly
with the orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your
choice, two or three or four; but if you fear that you
shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only
one, or (the captives) that your right hands possess.
That will be nearer to prevent you from doing
injustice.' (4.3) 'Aisha said, "O my nephew! (This Verse
has been revealed in connection with) an orphan girl
under the guardianship of her guardian who is attracted
by her wealth and beauty and intends to marry her with a
Mahr less than what other women of her standard deserve.
So they (such guardians) have been forbidden to marry
them unless they do justice to them and give them their
full Mahr, and they are ordered to marry other women
instead of them."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 3:
Narrated 'Alqama:
While I was with Abdullah, 'Uthman met him at Mina
and said, "O Abu 'Abdur-Rahman ! I have something to say
to you." So both of them went aside and 'Uthman said, "O
Abu 'Abdur-Rah. man! Shall we marry you to a virgin who
will make you remember your past days?" When 'Abdullah
felt that he was not in need of that, he beckoned me (to
join him) saying, "O 'Alqama!" Then I heard him saying
(in reply to 'Uthman), "As you have said that, (I tell
you that) the Prophet once said to us, 'O young people!
Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and
whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast, as
fasting diminishes his sexual power.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 4:
Narrated 'Abdullah:
We were with the Prophet while we were young and had
no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young
people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry,
because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his
modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal
sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to
marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual
power."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 5:
Narrated 'Ata:
We presented ourselves along with Ibn 'Abbas at the
funeral procession of Maimuna at a place called Sarif.
Ibn 'Abbas said, "This is the wife of the Prophet so
when you lift her bier, do not Jerk it or shake it much,
but walk smoothly because the Prophet had nine wives and
he used to observe the night turns with eight of them,
and for one of them there was no night turn."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 6:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet I used to go round (have sexual relations
with) all his wives in one night, and he had nine wives.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 7:
Narrated Said bin Jubair:
Ibn 'Abbas asked me, "Are you married?" I replied,
"No." He said, "Marry, for the best person of this
(Muslim) nation (i.e., Muhammad) of all other Muslims,
had the largest number of wives."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 8:
Narrated 'Umar bin Al-Khattab:
The Prophet said, "The rewards (of deeds) are
according to the intention, and everybody will get the
reward for what he has intended. So whoever emigrated
for Allah's and His Apostle's sake, his emigration was
for Allah and His Apostle; and whoever emigrated for
worldly benefits, or to marry a woman, then his
emigration was for the thing for what he emigrated for."
(1)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 9:
Narrated Ibn Masud:
We used to fight in the holy battles in the company
of the Prophet and we had no wives with us. So we said,
"O Allah's Apostle! Shall we get castrated?" The Prophet
forbade us to do so.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 10:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf came (from Mecca to Medina)
and the Prophet made a bond of brotherhood between him
and Sad bin Ar-Rabi' Al-Ansari. Al-Ansari had two wives,
so he suggested that 'Abdur-Rahman take half, his wives
and property. 'Abdur-Rahman replied, "May Allah bless
you with your wives and property. Kindly show me the
market." So 'Abdur-Rahman went to the market and gained
(in bargains) some dried yoghurt and some butter. After
a few days the Prophet saw Abdur-Rahman with some yellow
stains on his clothes and asked him, "What is that, O 'Abdur-Rahman?"
He replied, "I had married an Ansari woman." The Prophet
asked, "How much Mahr did you give her?" He replied,
"The weight of one (date) stone of gold." The Prophet
said, "Offer a banquet, even with one sheep."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 11:
Narrated Sad bin Abi Waqqas:
Allah's Apostle forbade 'Uthman bin Maz'un to abstain
from marrying (and other pleasures) and if he had
allowed him, we would have gotten ourselves
castrated.(1)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 12:
Narrated Sad bin Abi Waqqas:
The Prophet prevented 'Uthman bin Mazun from that
(not marrying), and had he allowed him, we would have
got ourselves castrated.(1)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 13o:
Narrated 'Abdullah:
We used to participate in the holy battles led by
Allah's Apostle and we had nothing (no wives) with us.
So we said, "Shall we get ourselves castrated?" He
forbade us that and then allowed us to marry women with
a temporary contract (2) and recited to us: -- 'O you
who believe ! Make not unlawful the good things which
Allah has made lawful for you, but commit no
transgression.' (5.87)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 13h:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
I said, "O Allah's Apostle! I am a young man and I am
afraid that I may commit illegal sexual intercourse and
I cannot afford to marry." He kept silent, and then
repeated my question once again, but he kept silent. I
said the same (for the third time) and he remained
silent. Then repeated my question (for the fourth time),
and only then the Prophet said, "O Abu Huraira! The pen
has dried after writing what you are going to confront.
So (it does not matter whether you) get yourself
castrated or not."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 14:
Narrated 'Aisha :
I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Suppose you landed in a
valley where there is a tree of which something has been
eaten and then you found trees of which nothing has been
eaten, of which tree would you let your camel graze?" He
said, "(I will let my camel graze) of the one of which
nothing has been eaten before." (The sub-narrator added:
'Aisha meant that Allah's Apostle had not married a
virgin besides herself .)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 15:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Allah's Apostle said (to me), "You have been shown to
me twice in (my) dreams. A man was carrying you in a
silken cloth and said to me, 'This is your wife.' I
uncovered it; and behold, it was you. I said to myself,
'If this dream is from Allah, He will cause it to come
true.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 16:
Narrated Jabir bin Abdullah:
While we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle)
with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as it
was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my
camel with a spear he had with him, and then my camel
started running as fast as the best camel you may see.
Behold! The rider was the Prophet himself. He said,
'What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, I am newly
married " He said, "Did you marry a virgin or a matron?
I replied, "A matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a
young girl so that you may play with her and she with
you?" When we were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet
said, "Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so
that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the
one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic
region.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 17:
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:
When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What
type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have
married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking
for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said:
Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl
so that you might play with her and she with you?'
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 18:
Narrated 'Ursa:
The Prophet asked Abu Bakr for 'Aisha's hand in
marriage. Abu Bakr said "But I am your brother." The
Prophet said, "You are my brother in Allah's religion
and His Book, but she (Aisha) is lawful for me to
marry."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 19:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "The best women are the riders of
the camels and the righteous among the women of Quraish.
They are the kindest women to their children in their
childhood and the more careful women of the property of
their husbands."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 20:
Narrated Abu Burda's father:
Allah's Apostle said, any man who has a slave girl
whom he educates properly, teaches good manners,
manumits and marries her, will get a double reward And
if any man of the people of the Scriptures believes in
his own prophet and then believes in me too, he will
(also) get a double reward And any slave who fulfills
his duty to his master and to his Lord, will (also) get
a double reward."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 21:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said: Abraham did not tell lies except
three. (One of them was) when Abraham passed by a tyrant
and (his wife) Sara was accompanying him (Abu Huraira
then mentioned the whole narration and said:) (The
tyrant) gave her Hajar. Sara said, "Allah saved me from
the hands of the Kafir (i.e. infidel) and gave me Hajar
to serve me." (Abu Huraira added:) That (Hajar) is your
mother, O Banu Ma'-As-Sama' (i.e., the Arabs).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 22:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet stayed for three days between Khaibar and
Medina, and there he consummated his marriage to Safiyya
bint Huyai. I invited the Muslims to the wedding banquet
in which neither meat nor bread was offered. He ordered
for leather dining-sheets to be spread, and dates, dried
yoghurt and butter were laid on it, and that was the
Prophet's wedding banquet. The Muslims wondered, "Is she
(Saffiyya) considered as his wife or his slave girl?"
Then they said, "If he orders her to veil herself, she
will be one of the mothers of the Believers; but if he
does not order her to veil herself, she will be a slave
girl. So when the Prophet proceeded from there, he
spared her a space behind him (on his she-camel) and put
a screening veil between her and the people.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 23:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
Allah's Apostle manumitted Safiyya and regarded her
manumission as her Mahr.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 24:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad As-Sa'idi:
A woman came to Allah's Apostle and said, "O Allah's
Apostle! I have come to give you myself in marriage
(without Mahr)." Allah's Apostle looked at her. He
looked at her carefully and fixed his glance on her and
then lowered his head. When the lady saw that he did not
say anything, she sat down. A man from his companions
got up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! If you are not in
need of her, then marry her to me." The Prophet said,
"Have you got anything to offer?" The man said, "No, by
Allah, O Allah's Apostle!" The Prophet said (to him),
"Go to your family and see if you have something." The
man went and returned, saying, "No, by Allah, I have not
found anything." Allah's Apostle said, "(Go again) and
look for something, even if it is an iron ring." He went
again and returned, saying, "No, by Allah, O Allah's
Apostle! I could not find even an iron ring, but this is
my Izar (waist sheet)." He had no rida. He added, "I
give half of it to her." Allah's Apostle said, "What
will she do with your Izar? If you wear it, she will be
naked, and if she wears it, you will be naked." So that
man sat down for a long while and then got up (to
depart). When Allah's Apostle saw him going, he ordered
that he be called back. When he came, the Prophet said,
"How much of the Quran do you know?" He said, "I know
such Sura and such Sura," counting them. The Prophet
said, "Do you know them by heart?" He replied, "Yes."
The Prophet said, "Go, I marry her to you for that much
of the Quran which you have."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 25:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Abu Hudhaifa bin 'Utba bin Rabi'a bin Abdi Shams who
had witnessed the battle of Badr along with the Prophet
adopted Salim as his son, to whom he married his niece,
Hind bint Al-Walid bin 'Utba bin Rabi'a; and Salim was
the freed slave of an Ansar woman, just as the Prophet
had adopted Zaid as his son. It was the custom in the
Pre-lslamic Period that if somebody adopted a boy, the
people would call him the son of the adoptive father and
he would be the latter's heir. But when Allah revealed
the Divine Verses: 'Call them by (the names of) their
fathers . . . your freed-slaves,' (33.5) the adopted
persons were called by their fathers' names. The one
whose father was not known, would be regarded as a Maula
and your brother in religion. Later on Sahla bint Suhail
bin 'Amr Al-Quraishi Al-'Amiri--and she was the wife of
Abu- Hudhaifa bin 'Utba--came to the Prophet and said,
"O Allah's Apostle! We used to consider Salim as our
(adopted) son, and now Allah has revealed what you know
(regarding adopted sons)." The sub-narrator then
mentioned the rest of the narration.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 26:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Allah's Apostle entered upon Dubaa bint Az-Zubair and
said to her, "Do you have a desire to perform the Hajj?"
She replied, "By Allah, I feel sick." He said to her,
"Intend to perform Hajj and stipulate something by
saying, 'O Allah, I will finish my Ihram at any place
where You stop me (i.e. I am unable to go further)." She
was the wife of Al-Miqdad bin Al-Aswad.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four
things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty
and her religion. So you should marry the religious
woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 28:
Narrated Sahl:
A man passed by Allah's Apostle and Allah s Apostle
asked (his companions) "What do you say about this
(man)?" They replied "If he asks for a lady's hand, he
ought to be given her in marriage; and if he intercedes
(for someone) his intercessor should be accepted; and if
he speaks, he should be listened to." Allah's Apostle
kept silent, and then a man from among the poor Muslims
passed by, an Allah's Apostle asked (them) "What do you
say about this man?" They replied, "If he asks for a
lady's hand in marriage he does not deserve to be
married, and he intercedes (for someone), his
intercession should not be accepted; And if he speaks,
he should not be listened to.' Allah's Apostle said,
"This poor man is better than so many of the first as
filling the earth.'
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 29:
Narrated 'Ursa:
that he asked 'Aisha regarding the Verse: 'If you
fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the
orphans (4.3) She said, "O my nephew! This Verse refers
to the orphan girl who is under the guardianship of her
guardian who likes her beauty and wealth and wishes to
(marry her and) curtails her Mahr. Such guardians have
been forbidden to marry them unless they do justice by
giving them their full Mahr, and they have been ordered
to marry other than them. The people asked for the
verdict of Allah's Apostle after that, so Allah
revealed: 'They ask your instruction concerning the
women . . . whom you desire to marry.' (4.127) So Allah
revealed to them that if the orphan girl had beauty and
wealth, they desired to marry her and for her family
status. They can only marry them if they give them their
full Mahr. And if they had no desire to marry them
because of their lack of wealth and beauty, they would
leave them and marry other women. So, as they used to
leave them, when they had no interest, in them, they
were forbidden to marry them when they had such
interest, unless they treated them justly and gave them
their full Mahr Apostle said, 'If at all there is evil
omen, it is in the horse, the woman and the house." a
lady is to be warded off. And the Statement of Allah:
'Truly, among your wives and your children, there are
enemies for you (i.e may stop you from the obedience of
Allah)' (64.14)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 30:
Narrated Abdullah bin 'Umar:
Allah's Apostle said, "Evil omen is in the women, the
house and the horse.'
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 31:
Narrated Ibn 'Umar:
Evil omen was mentioned before the Prophet: The
Prophet said, "If there is evil omen in anything, it is
in the house, the woman and the horse."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 32:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
Allah's Apostle said, "If at all there is bad omen,
it is in the horse, the woman, and the house."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 33:
Narrated Usama bin Zaid:
The Prophet said, "After me I have not left any
affliction more harmful to men than women."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 34:
Narrated 'Aisha :
Three principles were established because of Barira:
(i) When Banra was manumitted she was given the option
(to remain with her slave husband or not). (ii) Allah's
Apostle said "The Wala of the slave) is for the one who
manumits (the slave). (iii) When Allah's Apostle entered
(the house), he saw a cooking pot on the fire but he was
given bread and meat soup from the soup of the home. The
Prophet said, "Didn't I see the cooking pot (on the
fire)?" It was said, "That is the meat given in charity
to Barira, and you do not eat the (things given in)
charity." The Prophet said, "It is an object of charity
for Barira, and it is a present for us."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 35:
Narrated Aisha"
(regarding) the Verse: 'And if you fear that you
shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans...'
(4.3) It is about the orphan girl who is in the custody
of a man who is her guardian, and he intends to marry
her because of her wealth, but he treats her badly and
does not manage her property fairly and honestly. Such a
man should marry women of his liking other than her, two
or three or four. 'Prohibited to you (for marriage) are:
...your foster-mothers (who suckled you).' (4.23)
Marriage is prohibited between persons having a foster
suckling relationship corresponding to a blood
relationship which renders marriage unlawful.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 36:
Narrated 'Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) that while Allah's Apostle
was with her, she heard a voice of a man asking
permission to enter the house of Hafsa. 'Aisha added: I
said, "O Allah's Apostle! This man is asking permission
to enter your house." The Prophet said, "I think he is
so-and-so," naming the foster-uncle of Hafsa. 'Aisha
said, "If so-and-so," naming her foster uncle, "were
living, could he enter upon me?" The Prophet said, "Yes,
for foster suckling relations make all those things
unlawful which are unlawful through corresponding birth
(blood) relations."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 37:
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
It was said to the Prophet, "Won't you marry the
daughter of Hamza?" He said, "She is my foster niece
(brother's daughter). "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 38:
Narrated Um Habiba:
(daughter of Abu Sufyan) I said, "O Allah's Apostle!
Marry my sister. the daughter of Abu Sufyan." The
Prophet said, "Do you like that?" I replied, "Yes, for
even now I am not your only wife and I like that my
sister should share the good with me." The Prophet said,
"But that is not lawful for me." I said, We have heard
that you want to marry the daughter of Abu Salama." He
said, "(You mean) the daughter of Um Salama?" I said,
"Yes." He said, "Even if she were not my step-daughter,
she would be unlawful for me to marry as she is my
foster niece. I and Abu Salama were suckled by Thuwaiba.
So you should not present to me your daughters or your
sisters (in marriage)." Narrated 'Ursa; Thuwaiba was the
freed slave girl of Abu Lahb whom he had manumitted, and
then she suckled the Prophet. When Abu Lahb died, one of
his relatives saw him in a dream in a very bad state and
asked him, "What have you encountered?" Abu Lahb said,
"I have not found any rest since I left you, except that
I have been given water to drink in this (the space
between his thumb and other fingers) and that is because
of my manumitting Thuwaiba."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 39:
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet entered upon her while a man was
sitting with her. Signs of anger seemed to appear on his
face as if he disliked that. She said, "Here is my
(foster) brother." He said, "Be sure as to who is your
foster brother, for foster suckling relationship is
established only when milk is the only food of the
child."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 40:
Narrated Aisha:
that Aflah the brother of Abu Al-Qu'ais, her foster
uncle, came, asking permission to enter upon her after
the Verse of Al-Hijab (the use of veils by women) was
revealed. 'Aisha added: I did not allow him to enter,
but when Allah's Apostle came, I told him what I had
done, and he ordered me to give him permission.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 41:
Narrated 'Uqba bin Al-Harith:
I married a woman and then a black lady came to us
and said, "I have suckled you both (you and your wife)."
So I came to the Prophet and said, "I married so-and-so
and then a black lady came to us and said to me, 'I have
suckled both of you.' But I think she is a liar." The
Prophet turned his face away from me and I moved to face
his face, and said, "She is a liar." The Prophet said,
"How (can you keep her as your wife) when that lady has
said that she has suckled both of you? So abandon (i.e.,
divorce) her (your wife)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 42:
Narrated Um Habiba:
I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Do you like to have (my
sister) the daughter of Abu Sufyan?" The Prophet said,
"What shall I do (with her)?" I said, "Marry her." He
said, "Do you like that?" I said, "(Yes), for even now I
am not your only wife, so I like that my sister should
share you with me." He said, "She is not lawful for me
(to marry)." I said, "We have heard that you want to
marry." He said, "The daughter of Um Salama?" I said,
"Yes." He said, "Even if she were not my stepdaughter,
she should be unlawful for me to marry, for Thuwaiba
suckled me and her father (Abu Salama). So you should
neither present your daughters, nor your sisters, to
me."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 43:
Narrated Um Habiba:
I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry my sister, the
daughter of Abu Sufyan." He said, "Do you like that?" I
said, "Yes, for even now I am not your only wife; and
the most beloved person to share the good with me is my
sister." The Prophet said, "But that is not lawful for
me (i.e., to be married to two sisters at a time.)" I
said, "O Allah's Apostle! By Allah, we have heard that
you want to marry Durra, the daughter of Abu Salama." He
said, "You mean the daughter of Um Salama?" I said,
"Yes." He said, "By Allah ! Even if she were not my
stepdaughter, she would not be lawful for me to marry,
for she is my foster niece, for Thuwaiba has suckled me
and Abu Salama; so you should neither present your
daughters, nor your sisters to me."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 44:
Narrated Jabir:
Allah's Apostle forbade that a woman should be
married to man along with her paternal or maternal aunt.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 45:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "A woman and her paternal aunt
should not be married to the same man; and similarly, a
woman and her maternal aunt should not be married to the
same man."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 46:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet forbade that a woman should be married to
a man along with her paternal aunt or with her maternal
aunt (at the same time). Az-Zuhri (the sub-narrator)
said: There is a similar order for the paternal aunt of
the father of one's wife, for 'Ursa told me that 'Aisha
said, "What is unlawful because of blood relations, is
also unlawful because of the corresponding foster
suckling relations."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 47:
Narrated Ibn 'Umar :
Allah's Apostle forbade Ash-Shighar, which means that
somebody marries his daughter to somebody else, and the
latter marries his daughter to the former without paying
Mahr.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 48:
Narrated Hisham's father:
Khaula bint Hakim was one of those ladies who
presented themselves to the Prophet for marriage. 'Aisha
said, "Doesn't a lady feel ashamed for presenting
herself to a man?" But when the Verse: "(O Muhammad) You
may postpone (the turn of) any of them (your wives) that
you please,' (33.51) was revealed, " 'Aisha said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! I do not see, but, that your Lord
hurries in pleasing you.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 49:
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet got married while he was in the state of
Ihram.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 50:
Narrated 'Ali:
I said to Ibn 'Abbas, "During the battle of Khaibar
the Prophet forbade (Nikah) Al-Mut'a and the eating of
donkey's meat."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 51:
Narrated Abu Jamra:
I heard Ibn Abbas (giving a verdict) when he was
asked about the Mut'a with the women, and he permitted
it (Nikah-al-Mut'a). On that a freed slave of his said
to him, "That is only when it is very badly needed and
women are scarce." On that, Ibn 'Abbas said, "Yes."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 52:
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah and Salama bin Al-Akwa':
While we were in an army, Allah's Apostle came to us
and said, "You have been allowed to do the Mut'a
(marriage), so do it." Salama bin Al-Akwa' said: Allah's
Apostle's said, "If a man and a woman agree (to marry
temporarily), their marriage should last for three
nights, and if they like to continue, they can do so;
and if they want to separate, they can do so." I do not
know whether that was only for us or for all the people
in general. Abu Abdullah (Al-Bukhari) said: 'Ali made it
clear that the Prophet said, "The Mut'a marriage has
been cancelled (made unlawful)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 53:
Narrated Thabit Al-Banani:
I was with Anas while his daughter was present with
him. Anas said, "A woman came to Allah's Apostle and
presented herself to him, saying, 'O Allah's Apostle,
have you any need for me (i.e. would you like to marry
me)?' "Thereupon Anas's daughter said, "What a shameless
lady she was ! Shame! Shame!" Anas said, "She was better
than you; she had a liking for the Prophet so she
presented herself for marriage to him."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 54:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
A woman presented herself to the Prophet (for
marriage). A man said to him, "O Allah's Apostle! (If
you are not in need of her) marry her to me." The
Prophet said, "What have you got?" The man said, "I have
nothing." The Prophet said (to him), "Go and search for
something) even if it were an iron ring." The man went
and returned saying, "No, I have not found anything, not
even an iron ring; but this is my (Izar) waist sheet,
and half of it is for her." He had no Rida' (upper
garment). The Prophet said, "What will she do with your
waist sheet? If you wear it, she will have nothing over
her; and if she wears it, you will have nothing over
you." So the man sat down and when he had sat a long
time, he got up (to leave). When the Prophet saw him
(leaving), he called him back, or the man was called
(for him), and he said to the man, "How much of the
Quran do you know (by heart)?" The man replied I know
such Sura and such Sura (by heart)," naming the Suras
The Prophet said, "I have married her to you for what
you know of the Quran "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 55:
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar :
'Umar bin Al-Khattab said, "When Hafsa bint 'Umar
became a widow after the death of (her husband) Khunais
bin Hudhafa As-Sahmi who had been one of the companions
of the Prophet, and he died at Medina. I went to 'Uthman
bin 'Affan and presented Hafsa (for marriage) to him. He
said, "I will think it over.' I waited for a few days,
then he met me and said, 'It seems that it is not
possible for me to marry at present.' " 'Umar further
said, "I met Abu Bakr As-Siddique and said to him, 'If
you wish, I will marry my daughter Hafsa to you." Abu
Bakr kept quiet and did not say anything to me in reply.
I became more angry with him than with 'Uthman. I waited
for a few days and then Allah's Apostle asked for her
hand, and I gave her in marriage to him. Afterwards I
met Abu Bakr who said, 'Perhaps you became angry with me
when you presented Hafsa to me and I did not give you a
reply?' I said, 'Yes.' Abu Bakr said, 'Nothing stopped
me to respond to your offer except that I knew that
Allah's Apostle had mentioned her, and I never wanted to
let out the secret of Allah's Apostle. And if Allah's
Apostle had refused her, I would have accepted her.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 56:
Narrated Zainab bint Salama:
Um Habiba said to Allah's Apostle "We have heard that
you want to marry Durra bint Abu-Salama." Allah's
Apostle said, "Can she be married along with Um Salama
(her mother)? Even if I have not married Um Salama, she
would not be lawful for me to marry, for her father is
my foster brother." 'And there is no blame on you if you
make hint of betrothal or conceal it in your hearts.
Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing.' (2.235) Ibn 'Abbas
said, "Hint your intention of marrying' is made by
saying (to the widow) for example: "I want to marry, and
I wish that Allah will make a righteous lady available
for me.' " Al-Qasim said: One may say to the widow: 'I
hold all respect for you, and I am interested in you;
Allah will bring you much good, or something similar
'Ata said: One should hint his intention, and should not
declare it openly. One may say: 'I have some need. Have
good tidings. Praise be to Allah; you are fit to
remarry.' She (the widow) may say in reply: I am
listening to what you say,' but she should not make a
promise. Her guardian should not make a promise (to
somebody to get her married to him) without her
knowledge. But if, while still in the Iddat period, she
makes a promise to marry somebody, and he ultimately
marries her, they are not to be separated by divorce
(i.e., the marriage is valid).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 57:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Allah's Apostle said (to me), "You were shown to me
in a dream. An angel brought you to me, wrapped in a
piece of silken cloth, and said to me, 'This is your
wife.' I removed the piece of cloth from your face, and
there you were. I said to myself. 'If it is from Allah,
then it will surely be.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 58:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
A woman came to Allah's Apostle and said, "O Allah's
Apostle! I have come to you to present myself to you
(for marriage)." Allah's Apostle glanced at her. He
looked at her carefully and fixed his glance on her and
then lowered his head. When the lady saw that he did not
say anything, she sat down. A man from his companions
got up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! If you are not in
need of her, then marry her to me." The Prophet said,
"Have you got anything to offer." The man said, 'No, by
Allah, O Allah's Apostle!" The Prophet said (to him),
"Go to your family and try to find something." So the
man went and returned, saying, "No, by Allah, O Allah's
Apostle! I have not found anything." The Prophet said,
"Go again and look for something, even if it were an
iron ring." He went and returned, saying, "No, by Allah,
O Allah's Apostle! I could not find even an iron ring,
but this is my Izar (waist sheet).' He had no Rida
(upper garment). He added, "I give half of it to her."
Allah's Apostle said "What will she do with your Izar?
If you wear it, she will have nothing over herself
thereof (will be naked); and if she wears it, then you
will have nothing over yourself thereof ' So the man sat
for a long period and then got up (to leave). When
Allah's Apostle saw him leaving, he ordered that he e
called back. When he came, the Prophet asked (him), "How
much of the Qur'an do you know (by heart)?" The man
replied, I know such Sura and such Sura and such Sura,"
naming the suras. The Prophet said, "Can you recite it
by heart?" He said, 'Yes." The Prophet said, "Go I let
you marry her for what you know of the Quran (as her
Mahr).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 59:
Narrated 'Aisha:
(as regards the Verse): 'And about what is recited
unto you in the Book, concerning orphan girls to whom
you give not the prescribed portions and yet, whom you
desire to marry.' (4.127) This Verse is about the female
orphan who is under the guardianship of a man with whom
she shares her property and he has more right over her
(than anybody else) but does not like to marry her, so
he prevents her, from marrying somebody else, lest he
should share the property with him.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 60:
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:
When Hafsa, 'Umar's daughter became a widow because
of the death of her (husband) Ibn Hudhafa As-Sahmi who
was one of the companion of the Prophet and the one of
the Badr warriors and died at Medina, 'Umar said, "I met
'Uthman bin 'Affan and gave him an offer, saying, 'If
you wish, I will marry Hafsa to you.' He said. 'I will
think it over' I waited for a few days, then he met me
and said, 'I have made up my mind not to marry at
present' "Umar added, "Then I met Abu Bakr and said to
him, 'If you wish, I will marry Hafsa to you.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 61:
Narrated Al-Hasan:
concerning the Verse: 'Do not prevent them' (2.232)
Ma'qil bin Yasar told me that it was revealed in his
connection. He said, "I married my sister to a man and
he divorced her, and when her days of 'Idda (three
menstrual periods) were over, the man came again and
asked for her hand, but I said to him, 'I married her to
you and made her your bed (your wife) and favored you
with her, but you divorced her. Now you come to ask for
her hand again? No, by Allah, she will never go back to
you (again)!' That man was not a bad man and his wife
wanted to go back to him. So Allah revealed this Verse:
'Do not prevent them.' (2.232) So I said, 'Now I will do
it (let her go back to him), O Allah's Apostle."So he
married her to him again.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 62:
Narrated 'Aisha:
(regarding His Statement): 'They ask your instruction
concerning the women. Say: Allah instructs you about
them ...' (4.127) It is about the female orphan who is
under the guardianship of a man with whom she shares her
property and he does not want to marry her and dislikes
that someone else should marry her, lest he should share
the property with him, so he prevents her from marrying.
So Allah forbade such a guardian to do so (i.e. to
prevent her from marrying).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 63:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
While we were sitting in the company of the Prophet a
woman came to him and presented herself (for marriage)
to him. The Prophet looked at her, lowering his eyes and
raising them, but did not give a reply. One of his
companions said, "Marry her to me O Allah's Apostle!"
The Prophet asked (him), "Have you got anything?" He
said, "I have got nothing." The Prophet said, "Not even
an iron ring?" He Sad, "Not even an iron ring, but I
will tear my garment into two halves and give her one
half and keep the other half." The Prophet; said, "No.
Do you know some of the Quran (by heart)?" He said,
"Yes." The Prophet said, "Go, I have agreed to marry her
to you with what you know of the Qur'an (as her Mahr)."
'And for those who have no courses (i.e. they are still
immature). (65.4) And the 'Iddat for the girl before
puberty is three months (in the above Verse).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64:
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years
old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine
years old, and then she remained with him for nine years
(i.e., till his death).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65:
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years
old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine
years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha
remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his
death)." what you know of the Quran (by heart)'
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 66:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
A woman came to Allah's Apostle and said, "I present
myself (to you) (for marriage). She stayed for a long
while, then a man said, "If you are not in need of her
then marry her to me." The Prophet said, "Have you got
anything m order to pay her Mahr?" He said, "I have
nothing with me except my Izar (waist sheet)." The
Prophet said, "If you give her your Izar, you will have
no Izar to wear, (so go) and search for something. He
said, "I could not find anything." The Prophet said,
"Try (to find something), even if it were an iron ring
But he was not able to find (even that) The Prophet said
(to him). "Do you memorize something of the Qur'an?"
"Yes. ' he said, "such Sura and such Sura," naming those
Suras The Prophet said, "We have married her to you for
what you know of the Quran (by heart)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 67:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "A matron should not be given in
marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin
should not be given in marriage except after her
permission." The people asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How
can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence
(indicates her permission)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 68:
Narrated 'Aisha:
I said, "O Allah's Apostle! A virgin feels shy." He
said, "Her consent is (expressed by) her silence."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 69:
Narrated Khansa bint Khidam Al-Ansariya:
that her father gave her in marriage when she was a
matron and she disliked that marriage. So she went to
Allah's Apostle and he declared that marriage invalid.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 70:
Narrated Abdur-Rahman bin Yazid and Majammi bin Yazid.
the same ,Hadith above: A man called Khidam married a
daughter of his (to somebody) against her consent. 'If
you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with
the orphan girls then marry (other) women of your
choice.' (4.3) And if somebody says to the guardian (of
a woman), "Marry me to so-and-so," and the guardian
remained silent or said to him, "What have you got?" And
the other said, "I have so much and so much (Mahr)," or
kept quiet, and then the guardian said, "I have married
her to you," then the marriage is valid (legal). This
narration was told by Sahl on the authority of the
Prophet
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 71:
Narrated 'Ursa bin Az-Zubair:
that he asked 'Aisha, saying to her, "O Mother! (In
what connection was this Verse revealed):
'If you fear that you shall not be able to deal
justly with orphan girls (to the end of the verse) that
your right hands possess?" (4.3) Aisha said, "O my
nephew! It was about the female orphan under the
protection of her guardian who was interested in her
beauty and wealth and wanted to marry her with a little
or reduced Mahr. So such guardians were forbidden to
marry female orphans unless they deal with them justly
and give their full Mahr; and they were ordered to marry
women other than them."'Aisha added, "(Later) the people
asked Allah's Apostle, for instructions, and then Allah
revealed: 'They ask your instruction concerning the
women . . . And yet whom you desire to marry.' (4.127)
So Allah revealed to them in this Verse that-if a female
orphan had wealth and beauty, they desired to marry her
and were interested in her noble descent and the
reduction of her Mahr; but if she was not desired by
them because of her lack in fortune and beauty they left
her and married some other woman. So, as they used to
leave her when they had no interest in her, they had no
right to marry her if they had the desire to do so,
unless they deal justly with her and gave her a full
amount of Mahr."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 72:
Narrated Sahl:
A woman came to the Prophet,, and presented herself
to him (for marriage). He said, "I am not in need of
women these days." Then a man said, "O Allah's Apostle!
Marry her to me." The Prophet asked him, "What have you
got?" He said, "I have got nothing." The Prophet said,
"Give her something, even an iron ring." He said, "I
have got nothing." The Prophet asked (him), "How much of
the Quran do you know (by heart)?" He said, "So much and
so much." The Prophet said, "I have married her to you
for what you know of the Quran."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 73:
Narrated Ibn 'Umar:
The Prophet decreed that one should not try to cancel
a bargain already agreed upon between some other persons
(by offering a bigger price). And a man should not ask
for the hand of a girl who is already engaged to his
Muslim brother, unless the first suitor gives her up, or
allows him to ask for her hand.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 74:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "Beware of suspicion (about
others), as suspicion is the falsest talk, and do not
spy upon each other, and do not listen to the evil talk
of the people about others' affairs, and do not have
enmity with one another, but be brothers. And none
should ask for the hand of a girl who is already engaged
to his (Muslim) brother, but one should wait till the
first suitor marries her or leaves her."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 75:
Narrated Abdullah bin Umar:
"When Hafsa became a widow," Umar said, "I met Abu
Bakr and said to him, 'If you wish I will marry Hafsa
bint 'Umar to you.' I waited for a few days then Allah's
Apostle asked for her hand. Later Abu Bakr met me and
said, 'Nothing stopped me from returning to you
concerning your offer except that I knew that Allah's
Apostle had mentioned (his wish to marry) her, and I
could never let out the secret of Allah's Apostle . If
he had left her, I would have accepted her.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 76:
Narrated Ibn 'Umar:
Two men came from the east and delivered speeches,
and the Prophet said, "Some eloquent speech has the in
fluency of magic (e.g., some people refuse to do
something and then a good eloquent speaker addresses
them and then they agree to do that very thing after his
speech). "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 77:
Narrated Ar-Rabi':
(the daughter of Muawwidh bin Afra) After the
consummation of my marriage, the Prophet came and sat on
my bed as far from me as you are sitting now, and our
little girls started beating the tambourines and
reciting elegiac verses mourning my father who had been
killed in the battle of Badr. One of them said, "Among
us is a Prophet who knows what will happen tomorrow." On
that the Prophet said, "Leave this (saying) and keep on
saying the verses which you had been saying before."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 78:
Narrated Anas:
Abdur Rahman bin 'Auf married a woman and gave her
gold equal to the weight of a date stone (as Mahr). When
the Prophet noticed the signs of cheerfulness of the
marriage (on his face) and asked him about it, he said,
"I have married a woman and gave (her) gold equal to a
date stone in weight (as Mahr)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 79:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad As-Sa'idi:
While I was (sitting) among the people in the company
of Allah's Apostle a woman stood up and said, "O Allah's
Apostle! She has given herself in marriage to you;
please give your opinion of her." The Prophet did not
give her any reply. She again stood up and said, "O
Allah's Apostle! She has given herself (in marriage) to
you; so please give your opinion of her. The Prophet did
not give her any reply. She again stood up for the third
time and said, "She has given herself in marriage to
you: so give your opinion of her." So a man stood up and
said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry her to me." The Prophet
asked him, "Have you got anything?" He said, "No." The
Prophet said, "Go and search for something, even if it
were an iron ring." The man went and searched and then
returned saying, "I could not find anything, not even an
iron ring." Then the Prophet said, "Do you know
something of the Quran (by heart)?" He replied, "I know
(by heart) such Sura and such Sura." The Prophet said,
"Go! I have married her to you for what you know of the
Quran (by heart)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 80:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
The Prophet said to a man, "Marry, even with (a Mahr
equal to) an iron ring."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 81:
Narrated 'Uqba:
The Prophet said: "The stipulations most entitled to
be abided by are those with which you are given the
right to enjoy the (women's) private parts (i.e. the
stipulations of the marriage contract)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 82:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "It is not lawful for a woman (at
the time of wedding) to ask for the divorce of her
sister (i.e. the other wife of her would-be husband) in
order to have everything for herself, for she will take
only what has been written for her."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 83:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf came to Allah's Apostle and he
had marks of Sufra (yellow perfume). Allah's Apostle
asked him (about those marks). 'AbdurRahman bin Auf told
him that he had married a woman from the Ansar. The
Prophet asked, "How much Mahr did you pay her?" He said,
"I paid gold equal to the weight of a date stone."
Allah's Apostle said to him, "Give a wedding banquet,
even if with one sheep."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 84:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet offered a wedding banquet on the occasion
of his marriage to Zainab, and provided a good meal for
the Muslims. Then he went out as was his custom on
marrying, he came to the dwelling places of the mothers
of the Believers (i.e. his wives) invoking good (on
them), and they were invoking good (on him). Then he
departed (and came back) and saw two men (still sitting
there). So he left again. I do not remember whether I
informed him or he was informed (by somebody else) of
their departure)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 85:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet saw the traces of Sufra (yellow perfume)
on Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf and said, "What is this?"
'Abdur-Rahman, said, "I have married a woman and have
paid gold equal to the weight of a datestone (as her
Mahr). The Prophet said to him, "May Allah bless you:
Offer a wedding banquet even with one sheep."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 86:
Narrated 'Aisha:
When the Prophet married me, my mother came to me and
made me enter the house where I saw some women from the
Ansar who said, "May you prosper and have blessings and
have good omen."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 87:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "A prophet among the prophets went
for a military expedition and said to his people: "A man
who has married a lady and wants to consummate his
marriage with her and he has not done so yet, should not
accompany me.' "
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88:
Narrated 'Ursa:
The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with 'Aisha
while she was six years old and consummated his marriage
with her while she was nine years old and she remained
with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 89:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet stayed for three days at a place between
Khaibar and Medina, and there he consummated his
marriage with Safiyya bint Huyay. I invited the Muslims
to a banquet which included neither meat nor bread. The
Prophet ordered for the leather dining sheets to be
spread, and then dates, dried yogurt and butter were
provided over it, and that was the Walima (banquet) of
the Prophet. The Muslims asked whether Safiyya would be
considered as his wife or as a slave girl of what his
right hands possessed. Then they said, "If the Prophet
screens her from the people, then she Is the Prophet's
wife but if he does not screen her, then she is a slave
girl." So when the Prophet proceeded, he made a place
for her (on the camel) behind him and screened her from
people.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 90:
Narrated Aisha:
When the Prophet married me, my mother came to me and
made me enter the house (of the Prophet) and nothing
surprised me but the coming of Allah's Apostle to me in
the forenoon.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 91:
Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:
Allah's Apostle said, "Did you get Anmat?" I said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! From where can we have Anmat?" The
Prophet said, "Soon you will have them Anmat)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 92p:
Narrated 'Aisha:
that she prepared a lady for a man from the Ansar as
his bride and the Prophet said, "O 'Aisha! Haven't you
got any amusement (during the marriage ceremony) as the
Ansar like amusement?"
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 92m:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
"Whenever the Prophet passed by (my mother Um-Sulaim)
he used to enter her and greet her. Anas further said:
Once the Prophet way a bridegroom during his marriage
with Zainab, Um Sulaim said to me, "Let us give a gift
to Allah's Apostle ." I said to her, "Do it." So she
prepared Haisa (a sweet dish) made from dates, butter
and dried yoghurt and she sent it with me to him. I took
it to him and he said, "Put it down," and ordered me to
call some men whom he named, and to invite whomever I
would meet. I did what he ordered me to do, and when I
returned, I found the house crowded with people and saw
the Prophet keeping his hand over the Haisa and saying
over it whatever Allah wished (him to say). Then he
called the men in batches of ten to eat of it, and he
said to them, "Mention the Name of Allah, and each man
should eat of the dish the nearest to him." When all of
them had finished their meals, some of them left and a
few remained there talking, over which I felt unhappy.
Then the Prophet went out towards the dwelling places
(of his wives) and I too, went out after him and told
him that those people had left. Then he returned and
entered his dwelling place and let the curtains fall
while I was in (his) dwelling place, and he was reciting
the Verses:-- 'O you who believe! Enter not the
Prophet's house until leave is given you for a meal,
(and then) not (as early as) to what for its
preparation. But when you are invited, enter, and when
you have taken your meals, disperse without sitting for
a talk. Verily such (behavior) annoys the Prophet; and
he would be shy of (asking) you (to go), but Allah is
not shy of (telling you) the Truth.' (33-53) Abu Uthman
said: Anas said, "I served the Prophet for ten years."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 93:
Narrated 'Aisha:
that she borrowed a necklace from Asma' and then it
got lost. So Allah's Apostle
sent some people from his companions in search of it.
In the meantime the stated time for the prayer became
due and they offered their prayer without ablution. When
they came to the Prophet, they complained about it to
him, so the Verse regarding Tayammum was revealed .
Usaid bin Hudair said, "(O 'Aisha!) may Allah bless
you with a good reward, for by Allah, never did a
difficulty happen in connection with you, but Allah made
an escape from it for you, and brought Allah's Blessings
for the Muslims."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 94:
Narrated Ibn Abbas:
The Prophet said, "If anyone of you, when having
sexual intercourse with his wife, says: Bismillah,
Allahumma jannibni-Sh-Shaitan wa jannib-ish-Shaitan ma
razaqtana, and if it is destined that they should have a
child, then Satan will never be able to harm him."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 95:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
I was ten years old when Allah's Apostle arrived at
Medina. My mother and aunts used to urge me to serve the
Prophet regularly, and I served him for ten years. When
the Prophet died I was twenty years old, and I knew
about the order of Al-Hijab (veiling of ladies) more
than any other person when it was revealed. It was
revealed for the first time when Allah's Apostle had
consummated his marriage with Zainab bint Jahsh. When
the day dawned, the Prophet was a bridegroom and he
invited the people to a banquet, so they came, ate, and
then all left except a few who remained with the Prophet
for a long time. The Prophet got up and went out, and I
too went out with him so that those people might leave
too. The Prophet proceeded and so did I, till he came to
the threshold of 'Aisha's dwelling place. Then thinking
that these people have left by then, he returned and so
did I along with him till he entered upon Zainab and
behold, they were still sitting and had not gone. So the
Prophet again went away and I went away along with him.
When we reached the threshold of 'Aisha's dwelling
place, he thought that they had left, and so he returned
and I too, returned along with him and found those
people had left. Then the Prophet drew a curtain between
me and him, and the Verses of Al-Hijab were revealed.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 96:
Narrated Anas:
When 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf married an Ansari woman,
the Prophet asked him, "How much Mahr did you give her?"
'Abdur-Rahman said, "Gold equal to the weight of a date
stone." Anas added: When they (i.e. the Prophet and his
companions) arrived at Medina, the emigrants stayed at
the Ansar's houses. 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf stayed at Sad
bin Ar-Rabi's house. Sad said to 'Abdur-Rahman, "I will
divide and share my property with you and will give one
of my two wives to you." 'Abdur-Rahman said, "May Allah
bless you, your wives and property (I am not in need of
that; but kindly show me the way to the market)." So
'Abdur-Rahman went to the market and traded there
gaining a profit of some dried yoghurt and butter, and
married (an Ansari woman). The Prophet said to him,
"Give a banquet, even if with one sheep."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 97:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet did not give a better wedding banquet on
the occasion of marrying any of his wives than the one
he gave on marrying Zainab, and that banquet was with
(consisted of) one sheep.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 98:
Narrated Anas:
Allah's Apostle manumitted Safiyya and then married
her, and her Mahr was her manumission, and he gave a
wedding banquet with Hais (a sort of sweet dish made
from butter, cheese and dates).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 99:
Narrated Anas:
The Prophet consummated his marriage with a woman
(Zainab), so he sent me to invite men to the meals.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 100:
Narrated Thabit:
The marriage of Zainab bint Jahash was mentioned in
the presence of Anas and he said, "I did not see the
Prophet giving a better banquet on marrying any of his
wives than the one he gave on marrying Zainab. He then
gave a banquet with one sheep."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 101:
Narrated Safiyya bint Shaiba:
The Prophet gave a banquet with two Mudds of barley
on marrying some of his wives. (1 Mudd= 1 3/4 of a
kilogram) .
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 102:
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:
Allah's Apostle said, "If anyone of you is invites to
a wedding banquet, he must go for it (accept the
invitation) ."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 103:
Narrated Abu Musa:
The Prophet said, "Set the captives free, accept the
invitation (to a wedding banquet), and visit the
patients."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 104:
Narrated Al-Bara' bin 'Azib:
The Prophet ordered us to do seven (things) and
forbade us from seven. He ordered us to visit the
patients, to follow the funeral procession, to reply to
the sneezer (i.e., say to him, 'Yarhamuka-l-lah (May
Allah bestow His Mercy upon you), if he says
'Al-hamdulillah' (Praise be to Allah), to help others to
fulfill their oaths, to help the oppressed, to greet
(whomever one should meet), and to accept the invitation
(to a wedding banquet). He forbade us to wear golden
rings, to use silver utensils, to use Mayathir (cushions
of silk stuffed with cotton and placed under the rider
on the saddle), the Qasiyya (linen clothes containing
silk brought from an Egyptian town), the Istibraq (thick
silk) and the Dibaj (another kind of silk). (See Hadith
No. 539 and 753).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 105:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
Abu Usaid As-Sa'di invited Allah's Apostle to his
wedding party and his wife who was the bride, served
them on that day. Do you know what drink she gave
Allah's Apostle? She had soaked some dates for him (in
water) overnight, and when he had finished his meal she
gave him that drink (of soaked dates).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 106:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The worst food is that of a wedding banquet to which
only the rich are invited while the poor are not
invited. And he who refuses an invitation (to a banquet)
disobeys Allah and His Apostle .
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 107:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "If I am invited to a meal of
trotters I will accept it; and if I am given a trotter
as a present I will accept it."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 108:
Narrated Nafi':
Abdullah bin 'Umar said, "Allah's Apostle said,
'Accept the marriage invitation if you are invited to
it.' " Ibn 'Umar used to accept the invitation whether
to a wedding banquet or to any other party, even when he
was fasting.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 109:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
Once the Prophet saw some women and children coming
from a wedding party. He got up energetically and
happily and said, "By Allah! You (i.e., the Ansar) are
the most beloved of all people to me."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 110:
Narrated Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) I bought a cushion having
on it pictures (of animals). When Allah's Apostle saw
it, he stood at the door and did not enter. I noticed
the sign of disapproval on his face and said, "O Allah's
Apostle! I repent to Allah and His Apostle. What sin
have I committed?' Allah's Apostle said. "What is this
cushion?" I said, "I have bought it for you so that you
may sit on it and recline on it." Allah's Apostle said,
"The makers of these pictures will be punished on the
Day of Resurrection, and it will be said to them, 'Give
life to what you have created (i.e., these pictures).' "
The Prophet added, "The Angels of (Mercy) do not enter a
house in which there are pictures (of animals)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 111:
Narrated Sahl:
When Abu Usaid As-Sa'idi got married, he invited the
Prophet and his companions. None prepared the food for
them and brought it to them but his wife. She soaked
some dates in water in a stone pot overnight, and when
the Prophet had finished his food, she provided him with
that drink (of soaked dates).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 112:
Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
Abu Usaid As-Sa'idi invited the Prophet to his
wedding party and his wife served him on that day, and
she was the bride. She said (or Sahl said), "Do you know
what she soaked for Allah's Apostle? She soaked some
dates for him (in water) in a drinking bowl overnight."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 113:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle said, "The woman is like a rib; if
you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you
want to get benefit from her, do so while she still has
some crookedness."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 114:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the
Last Day should not hurt (trouble) his neighbor. And I
advise you to take care of the women, for they are
created from a rib and the most crooked portion of the
rib is its upper part; if you try to straighten it, it
will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked,
so I urge you to take care of the women."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 115:
Narrated Ibn 'Umar:
During the lifetime of the Prophet we used to avoid
chatting leisurely and freely with our wives lest some
Divine inspiration might be revealed concerning us. But
when the Prophet had died, we started chatting leisurely
and freely (with them).
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 116:
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar:
The Prophet said, "Everyone of you is a guardian and
everyone of you is responsible (for his wards). A ruler
is a guardian and is responsible(for his subjects); a
man is a guardian of his family and responsible (for
them); a wife is a guardian of her husband's house and
she is responsible (for it), a slave is a guardian of
his master's property and is responsible (for that).
Beware! All of you are guardians and are responsible
(for your wards)."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 117:
Narrated 'Aisha:
Eleven women sat (at a place) and promised and
contracted that they would not conceal anything of the
news of their husbands. The first one said, "My husband
is like the meat of a lean weak camel which is kept on
the top of a mountain which is neither easy to climb,
nor is the meat fat, so that one might put up with the
trouble of fetching it." The second one said, "I shall
not relate my husband's news, for I fear that I may not
be able to finish his story, for if I describe him, I
will mention all his defects and bad traits." The third
one said, "My husband is a tall man; if I describe him
(and he hears of that) he will divorce me, and if I keep
quiet, he will neither divorce me nor treat me as a
wife." The fourth one said, "My husband is a moderate
person like the night of Tihama which is neither hot nor
cold. I am neither afraid of him, nor am I discontented
with him." The fifth one said, "My husband, when
entering (the house) is a leopard, and when going out,
is a lion. He does not ask about whatever is in the
house." The sixth one said, "If my husband eats. he eats
too much (leaving the dishes empty), and if he drinks he
leaves nothing, and if he sleeps he sleeps alone (away
from me) covered in garments and does not stretch his
hands here and there so as to know how I fare (get
along)." The seventh one said, "My husband is a
wrong-doer or weak and foolish. All the defects are
present in him. He may injure your head or your body or
may do both." The eighth one said, "My husband is soft
to touch like a rabbit and smells like a Zarnab (a kind
of good smelling grass)." The ninth one said, "My
husband is a tall generous man wearing a long strap for
carrying his sword. His ashes are abundant and his house
is near to the people who would easily consult him." The
tenth one said, "My husband is Malik, and what is Malik?
Malik is greater than whatever I say about him. (He is
beyond and above all praises which can come to my mind).
Most of his camels are kept at home (ready to be
slaughtered for the guests) and only a few are taken to
the pastures. When the camels hear the sound of the lute
(or the tambourine) they realize that they are going to
be slaughtered for the guests." The eleventh one said,
"My husband is Abu Zar and what is Abu Zar (i.e., what
should I say about him)? He has given me many ornaments
and my ears are heavily loaded with them and my arms
have become fat (i.e., I have become fat). And he has
pleased me, and I have become so happy that I feel proud
of myself. He found me with my family who were mere
owners of sheep and living in poverty, and brought me to
a respected family having horses and camels and
threshing and purifying grain . Whatever I say, he does
not rebuke or insult me. When I sleep, I sleep till late
in the morning, and when I drink water (or milk), I
drink my fill. The mother of Abu Zar and what may one
say in praise of the mother of Abu Zar? Her saddle bags
were always full of provision and her house was
spacious. As for the son of Abu Zar, what may one say of
the son of Abu Zar? His bed is as narrow as an
unsheathed sword and an arm of a kid (of four months)
satisfies his hunger. As for the daughter of Abu Zar,
she is obedient to her father and to her mother. She has
a fat well-built body and that arouses the jealousy of
her husband's other wife. As for the (maid) slave girl
of Abu Zar, what may one say of the (maid) slavegirl of
Abu Zar? She does not uncover our secrets but keeps
them, and does not waste our provisions and does not
leave the rubbish scattered everywhere in our house."
The eleventh lady added, "One day it so happened that
Abu Zar went out at the time when the milk was being
milked from the animals, and he saw a woman who had two
sons like two leopards playing with her two breasts. (On
seeing her) he divorced me and married her. Thereafter I
married a noble man who used to ride a fast tireless
horse and keep a spear in his hand. He gave me many
things, and also a pair of every kind of livestock and
said, 'Eat (of this), O Um Zar, and give provision to
your relatives." She added, "Yet, all those things which
my second husband gave me could not fill the smallest
utensil of Abu Zar's." 'Aisha then said: Allah's Apostle
said to me, "I am to you as Abu Zar was to his wife Um
Zar."
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 118:
Narrated 'Ursa:
Aisha said, "While the Ethiopians were playing with
their small spears, Allah's Apostle screened me behind
him and I watched (that display) and kept on watching
till I left on my own." So you may estimate of what age
a little girl may listen to amusement.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 119:
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas :
I had been eager to ask 'Umar bin Al-Khattab about
the two ladies from among the wives of the Prophet
regarding whom Allah said 'If you two (wives of the
Prophet namely Aisha and Hafsa) turn in repentance to
Allah, your hearts are indeed so inclined (to oppose
what the Prophet likes). (66.4) till 'Umar performed the
Hajj and I too, performed the Hajj along with him. (On
the way) 'Umar went aside to answer the call of nature,
and I also went aside along with him carrying a tumbler
full of water, and when 'Umar had finished answering the
call of nature, I poured water over his hands and he
performed the ablution. Then I said to him, "O chief of
the Believers! Who were the two ladies from among the
wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said: 'If you
two (wives of the Prophet) turn in repentance to Allah
your hearts are indeed so inclined (to oppose what the
Prophet likes)?" (66.4) He said, "I am astonished at
your question, O Ibn Abbas. They were 'Aisha and Hafsa."
Then 'Umar went on narrating the Hadith and said, "I and
an Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiyya bin Zaid
who used to live in Awali-al-Medina, used to visit the
Prophet in turn. He used to go one day and I another
day. When I went, I would bring him the news of what had
happened that day regarding the Divine Inspiration and
other things, and when he went, he used to do the same
for me. We, the people of Quraish used to have the upper
hand over our wives, but when we came to the Ansar, we
found that their women had the upper hand over their
men, so our women also started learning the ways of the
Ansari women. I shouted at my wife and she retorted
against me and I disliked that she should answer me
back. She said to me, 'Why are you so surprised at my
answering you back? By Allah, the wives of the Prophet
answer him back and some of them may leave (does not
speak to) him throughout the day till the night.' The
(talk) scared me and I said to her, 'Whoever has done so
will be ruined!' Then I proceeded after dressing myself,
and entered upon Hafsa and said to her, 'Does anyone of
you keep the Prophet angry till night?' She said, 'Yes.'
I said, 'You are a ruined losing person! Don't you fear
that Allah may get angry for the anger of Allah's
Apostle and thus you will be ruined? So do not ask more
from the Prophet and do not answer him back and do not
give up talking to him. Ask me whatever you need and do
not be tempted to imitate your neighbor (i.e., 'Aisha)
in her manners for she is more charming than you and
more beloved to the Prophet ." Umar added,"At that time
a talk was circulating among us that (the tribe of)
Ghassan were preparing their horses to invade us. My
Ansari companion, on the day of his turn, went (to the
town) and returned to us at night and knocked at my door
violently and asked if I was there. I became horrified
and came out to him. He said, 'Today a great thing has
happened.' I asked, 'What is it? Have (the people of)
Ghassan come?' He said, 'No, but (What has happened) is
greater and more horrifying than that: Allah's Apostle;
has divorced his wives. 'Umar added, "The Prophet kept
away from his wives and I said "Hafsa is a ruined
loser.' I had already thought that most probably this
(divorce) would happen in the near future. So I dressed
myself and offered the morning prayer with the Prophet
and then the Prophet; entered an upper room and stayed
there in seclusion. I entered upon Hafsa and saw her
weeping. I asked, 'What makes you weep? Did I not warn
you about that? Did the Prophet divorce you all?' She
said, 'I do not know. There he is retired alone in the
upper room.' I came out and sat near the pulpit and saw
a group of people sitting around it and some of them
were weeping. I sat with them for a while but could not
endure the situation, so I went to the upper room where
the Prophet; was and said to a black slave of his, 'Will
you get the permission (of the Prophet ) for 'Umar (to
enter)?' The slave went in, talked to the Prophet about
it and then returned saying, 'I have spoken to the
Prophet and mentioned you but he kept quiet.' Then I
returned and sat with the group of people sitting near
the pulpit. but I could not bear the situation and once
again I said to the slave, 'Will you get the permission
for 'Umar?' He went in and returned saying, 'I mentioned
you to him but he kept quiet.' So I returned again and
sat with the group of people sitting near the pulpit,
but I could not bear the situation, and so I went to the
slave and said, 'Will you get the permission for 'Umar?'
He went in and returned to me saying, 'I mentioned you
to him but he kept quiet.' When I was leaving, behold!
The slave called me, saying, 'The Prophet has given you
permission.' Then I entered upon Allah's Apostle and saw
him Lying on a bed made of stalks of date palm leaves
and there was no bedding between it and him. The stalks
left marks on his side and he was leaning on a leather
pillow stuffed with date-palm fires. I greeted him and
while still standing I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Have
you divorced your wives?' He looked at me and said,
'No.' I said, 'Allah Akbar!' And then, while still
standing, I said chatting, 'Will you heed what I say, O
Allah's Apostle? We, the people of Quraish used to have
power over our women, but when we arrived at Medina we
found that the men (here) were overpowered by their
women.' The Prophet smiled and then I said to him, 'Will
you heed what I say, O Allah's Apostle? I entered upon
Hafsa and said to her, "Do not be tempted to imitate
your companion ('Aisha), for she is more charming than
you and more beloved to the Prophet.' " The Prophet
smiled for a second time. When I saw him smiling, I sat
down. Then I looked around his house, and by Allah, I
could not see anything of importance in his house except
three hides, so I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Invoke Allah
to make your followers rich, for the Persians and the
Romans have been made prosperous and they have been
given (the pleasures of the world), although they do not
worship Allah.' Thereupon the Prophet sat up as he was
reclining. and said, 'Are you of such an opinion, O the
son of Al-Khattab? These are the people who have
received the rewards for their good deeds in this
world.' I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Ask Allah to forgive
me.' Then the Prophet kept away from his wives for
twenty-nine days because of the story which Hafsa had
disclosed to 'Aisha. The Prophet had said, 'I will not
enter upon them (my wives) for one month,' because of
his anger towards them, when Allah had admonished him.
So, when twenty nine days had passed, the Prophet first
entered upon 'Aisha. 'Aisha said to him, 'O Allah's
Apostle! You had sworn that you would not enter upon us
for one month, but now only twenty-nine days have
passed, for I have been counting them one by one.' The
Prophet said, 'The (present) month is of |